Home » Sex Articles » Tuesday, March 20th, 2007 Want to be swingers? Find out if swinging is right for you. Are you a couple with a healthy sex life wanting to try something new and exciting? Do you feel like adding more zing to your sex life? Then maybe swinging is just the thing your looking for. Swingers are couples who are married, in a serious relationship or otherwise committed to one another and engage in sexual activity with another other couple, multiple couples, or a single individual. It is believed that swinging started in America in the fifties. Today, more than 1/5th of the couples in America are into some form of swinging. Which brings us to the next question? Are you as a couple ready for a swinging adventure? If you as a couple are not able to satisfy each others sexual needs and you're looking for another source of pleasure then, swinging is probably not for you. Swingers are very happy and content with their partners and are very confident and open about their sexuality. Swinging gives them a little high and improves their sex life as a couple. Jealous when a pretty girl smiles at your husband, then you aren’t ready for swinging yet. It is a must that you as a couple are sure of your relationship. Swinging is strictly not an activity to find replacements for your partners. Both of you have to be 100% sure of your desires and wants before you enter swinging. Now, after you meet the criteria mentioned above, you have to move to the next question. How to find another swinger couple? Swingers are in huge numbers but it is not always easy to find another couple. There are many swinger clubs these days but the membership fees are pretty high. Swinging requires big clubs or big houses where people can have sex together and so it is an expensive adventure to have. Placing personal ads in newspapers, swinger magazines and online is the best and cheapest way to find other willing couples. You can search and browse swingers ads for free and if you find the right couple or individual, it only cost a minimal fee to make contact. Be sure to study the other couple or individual and it is vital that both of you are comfortable with them. Sometimes you may know a swinger couple who are members of swinger clubs. If you are invited to one of these swinger parties, grab the opportunity as this maybe your ticket into the world of swinging. If you are new to swinging then the third question has to be of utmost importance to you. What to expect from your first swinger experience? It is the uncertainty which makes online dating and blind dates so much fun. In the same way, it is the same anxiety and nervousness which attracts so many new couples to swinging. If you are swinging for the first time, you as a couple must talk about it. Once you are both clear and confident, dress up for your big night. Private clubs hold swinger parties where you need not participate but can watch other couples having sex. This is a nice way to start as watching others will you give you the courage to try it yourself. After you are sure that swinging is what you want, you can move to the next stage. Soft swinging has to be your next stop. This is when two couples have sex in each others presence. There is no partner exchange. You may have oral sex or enjoy foreplay with another partner but vaginal sex takes place only with your partner. Once you get through this, you can graduate to open and closed swinging. If you are adventurous you can go straight to open swinging. Open swinging is when four or more couples have sex together in an open place. This is also known as an orgy. Swinging is for people who have an attitude in life. It is for people like you who want to experience a variety of sexual encounters. Swingers must remember that in no way must you hurt or ignore your partner because swinging is about swapping partners for sexual highs and not for permanently swapping or replacing your partner. Where would you like to go? » Home » Sex Articles